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MATCH THE DURATION TO THE QUESTION

A week, a fortnight, a month, a season.

A Counsel.day decision runs for a duration you set at composition. The right duration is not the shortest you can tolerate; it is the time over which the moods that actually drive the decision will move. Below is a guide by class of question.

MinimumSeven days
MaximumNinety days
ExtendingAllowed once started
THE GUIDE

Durations by class of question.

Class
Category
Examples
Typical duration
Class 01
Family & reproduction
Should we have a baby? Try for a second? Go through IVF? Which school for the child we have?
90 daysA full season of moods
Class 02
The partnership itself
Should we get married? Separate? Move countries for one of us? Stay through this season?
60 daysShape-of-life decisions
Class 03
Home & place
Should we move into the city? Move closer to family? Should we buy the house we saw?
30 daysOne month of evenings
Class 04
Career
Should I leave this job? Take the new role? Start the thing I've been talking about?
21 daysAcross a work cycle
Class 05
Time-bound choices
Should we accept the offer by Friday? Should we commit to the holiday before it sells out?
7 daysA week, no longer
Class 06
Solo · alone
A question facing one person · usually career, identity, or a personal decision that affects only the decider.
VariableMatches the partnered class
THE PRINCIPLE

Why the duration is the point.

The duration is the work. Single-conversation decision-making fails not because anyone is reasoning badly, but because a single conversation captures a single mood · the mood of that evening, after that day, in that room. Counsel.day captures the actual shape of how each of you feels across the period that suits the decision, then names what you were arguing about. A 90-day family decision sees a full season's moods. A 14-day home decision sees a fortnight's. The duration controls the resolution of the data.

Choosing too short defeats the mechanism. Choosing too long is occasionally tolerable but rarely necessary. The numbers above came from talking to early users; you are not bound by them. The system enforces a 7-day minimum to keep the analysis statistically meaningful.

Read the design essay · why time is the active ingredient →

EXTENSIONS

You can extend. You cannot shorten.

Once a decision is running you may extend its duration · for example, you started at 30 days and want to take the question to 45. The verdict day moves; the votes already cast are kept; the system continues exactly as before. You cannot shorten a running decision, because shortening defeats the patience that the duration is enforcing.

If you need to stop entirely, you can cancel · the decision and every vote inside it are destroyed. There is no partial verdict, by design.

PICK A DURATION

Your first Solo decision is free.

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